Ex bf of 3 years emotionally cheating on me by texting other women. Try to play it off and act like he didn’t know who was texting and calling him when confronted, nor did he apologize he just basically try to play the victim and blame me. This happen a week ago. I moved out the day after it happen and he didn’t even try to stop me.

I blocked him for that period and just recently unblocked him on my phone. Idk, I guess I was still expecting some closure or some sort of hope for the relationship. But honestly did not expect a text from him or call either way. He is to prideful to that extent.

Anyways he texted me last night. That I didn’t pay the service bill and that water services were cut off and I needed to call him. Excuse me?! What did he expect for me to keep paying the bill after he got caught. Yes, I didn’t even give him the heads up about it, but why should I? He didn’t give me a heads up either about the other women. And I need to call him?

Anyways, my emotions are all over the place. I hate him, yet I still love him and I am in a state of denial/hope that things will get fixed or he’ll come looking for me. But the other part of me, which is the most intact at this point, says to fuck him, keep him block, and don’t fucken even respond.

Should I give him the courtesy and just let him know I cut the services off, keep him unblock, or just let him figure it out himself I mean his a big guy he can do that? It’s that obvious I know. But I would like some feedback please.