He used to stick his tongue in my ear when I was a child. He gave his tongue a nick name “Sammy the slug”.

He also got massages from me and my sister with bottle oil and everything.

And he would get me to sit in his lap all the time.

I was under 10.

My mom encouraged it because he didn’t like us so she tried to get him to like us.

On the flip he also made a wooden paddle to punish ya with if we were bad. It had a nickname as well. “TJ” (for Truth and Justice)

I don’t know what to make if it because I was so young but I don’t feel comfortable in my body when I talk about it.