I don’t really know what to do. But my husband is always angry. Whenever he gets super pissed off, he takes it out on me or he will do something stupid to hurt me. Sometimes accidentally and other times it’s intentional. I love him to death but I am struggling so much with this. I know he loves me and cares for me but he just doesn’t show it. The way he grew up, people didn’t show love and if they did it was tough love. He’s in the marines and currently in the field. Yesterday we were talking whenever we had a chance. The past 2 weeks I was working none stop so we didn’t see each others really so when we get a chance to talk I give him my full attention. When he finally got a chance to talk to me yesterday, he would be more focused on Facebook rather than texting me. When I asked him if he could just talk to me since we haven’t had much time and we didn’t know when the next time was, he replied with “why does it matter? Why can’t I relax? I give you all my attention at work and when I’m home so when do I have time to pay attention to important things?”. After he said this I was heart broken and started crying at work. Then he said he was turning off his phone. 2 minutes later he turned it back on and said sorry. Then continued to do the same thing he had just done and turned his phone off again. Then this morning he messaged me saying how he has been so angry because he’s Been at work and hasn’t been able to talk to or see me. Finally he said “I’m sorry, I can even begun to explain how much I regret i.”.

I asked him what he regretted, he never answered me then turned his phone off once again after he had read it.