both my SO & I never had celebrated Christmas as kids, we come from a family of single moms who really couldn’t afford it.. but would go to families house & see everyone opening literally so many presents.. so naturally we’ve been going all out for our kids.. ages 7 & 5. They do not get toys through the year, & for their birthdays we go on small trips.. I notice this year they already started making an insane Christmas list so I’m thinking maybe we should humble them up a little bit getting one present they want each then Getting them stuff they actually need.