Lmao I’m probably being so annoying on this app about the same topic but I don’t really have anyone to talk about this & I got good feedback last time.

So the last post I made was about how my roommate said how she’s allergic to weed/cigarette smoke because of her asthma. Most of y’all said that it shouldn’t matter if she’s there or not (since my other 2 roommates are cool with it) & just blow the smoke & make sure the smell is taken care of. Well this morning I smoked in the living room while she was in the room sleeping. I followed all the precautions and I opened windows as well as made sure to be right next to a window, have the fan on to help blow out the smoke, had a damp towel at the entrance, had a candle AND incense burning and after I was done I sprayed odor eliminator spray and a room smell spray and I went around the apartment spraying the hell out of everywhere as well as making sure it doesn’t smell in the room we share.

After I did the first/second time going around spraying, I asked her if it smells like weed and asking if the smoke of the inscents were bothering her since she literally said yesterday that she’s allergic to smoke but then she flipped the script by saying that she’s actually allergic to weed and that she’s allergic to different type of smells but on Friday night one of my other roommates was looking for someone to get from since her friends plugs weren’t available, I sold her some of mine & while we were in the kitchen distributing it on the counter, the allergic roommate came in &saw the weed on the table (& ik she smelled it too cause it was loud af) & she seemed so confused on what it was. She was like “what is that? Oh that’s the stuff u put in food & eat it” or some shit like that & my roommate had to tell her it’s weed & then looked at each other so confused at her after she left the room. But today when I smoked, she kept coughing & after awhile I felt like she was lowkey over exaggerating it cause she kept coughing even after it smelled better & I even asked & she said the weed smell was gone.

Well I’m writing this cause I don’t know what to do. It’s annoying to have a roommate like this & having to be cautious like that. I want to be able to comfortably do what I want in the apartment cause there are things she does that I don’t like that I can get on her for. Should I just smoke when I know she’s gone & is going to be for awhile or just not do it at all? Another option is going outside and finding a secluded place to smoke but unfortunately I live in a non-legal state & doing so would just make me feel paranoid af & in my specific area police really likes to drive around. My apartment does have an open rooftop but honestly scared to smoke there cause idk who goes up there & I know they have cameras & also what if I’m up there smoking, thinking I’m alone but whole time someone is there snitching? I do have a car that o could make use of but I used to hotbox my car but that shortly ended cause my parents knew that I smoked in it even when I sprayed the shit out of my car. Would it smell the inside of my car still if I had my sunroof open while I smoked in a secluded area (at night) & had an incense burning & sprayed after as well as driving around to air it out? Ugh idk but any suggestions will help!