My fiancé is in the military, so things are a little more complicated with planning. We’re getting legally married a few months before so the paperwork is sorted and we’ll actually have an apartment. It’s still important to me that we actually do a ceremony/reception when we can. And I have no idea if the bridal shower/bachelorette party is even worth it. We’re on a budget and a couple of my bridesmaids live out of state, so it’s difficult to plan anything. It feels a little discouraging. Is it important that we do this? I don’t know..😅 I’m 19, and he’s 20 (yes, we’re young) What did you do/or what would you suggest? No rude comments, please. I’m only looking for advice.