Father in the room or not in the room

So ladies I’m due any day now and to be honest my SO has made this pregnancy hell right now. I basically kicked him on a few days ago for a lot of reasons. Mostly disrespect. Well a few months ago maybe when I was about 20 weeks he told me he didn’t know if he could handle being in the room while I was having his baby. He said he does not have the patience. And I should know this because he’s not a patient man. After all he put me through while living together and being pregnant I kinda just backed off. I’m living in my house that I just bought that he also complained about because it’s “too big” and says he can only give me $400 a month to live with me.

Well my question is should I call him while I’m in labor and tell him or should I wait till the babies born. I don’t want to leave him out but at the same time after hearing what he said about being in the room with me he made me feel like I was a bother to him. Any advice?