So I told my husband of 2 years I wanted a divorce he's fighting it so hard. He abused me all our marriage. I am done. We have a small child and he makes excuses how children of divorce are sad and depressed. I'm not going to be in a marriage where I'm unhappy and getting abused and my son has to watch us fight. My husband's parents did the same thing to him and I'm breaking the cycle. Everytime he begs me to stay I tell him no. I'm so used to giving in and telling him yes to please him. But i stood up and said no. We are separated right now and I file for divorce tomorrow. I refuse to put myself in that position ever again.