Am I wrong for being frustrated?

My bf is very insecure. I’ve already talked to him about asking me “what’s wrong/everything ok/Etc” every five minutes. I was tired last night, and told him I was going to go on to bed. He was going to come over after work, but I have to get up early tomorrow and he likes to stay until 1 or 2 in the morning. I went to bed at 10. I woke up to

He didn’t decide against anything I told him I was going to bed.

At first I asked if it was ok if I went to bed after I got off the phone with my dad. My bf and i have been together for 4 months. We dated before a few years ago, but I broke up with him because he wouldn’t get his license. (He’s 28 and has them now)

The other day I asked him to have the night to myself so I could get some work done. I was painting and he called and I didn’t answer, then he left work two hours early, showed up at the house, crying saying he thought he was losing me.

I’m really really frustrated.

*update. At 11am he showed up at the house wtf. He usually asks.

**Update at 5pm he came over again on his lunch break, even though his boss told him not to do that, after I didn’t answer because I was busy with my child. Smh. I’m done.