So she waits til she's alone with my husband and tells him that she and I discussed the dinner that she's planning and that it's going to be her, my father in law, my husband and I, one of my frinds and a few of hers, and that I was ok with it.... This discussion NEVER happened!! This lady is unbelievable!!!.... So she tells my husband to tell me to get ahold of my friend and let her know the dinner was going to be this past weekend at some restraunt cuz that's what fits HER schedule best... Needless to say when he came home and told me, I flipped shit!! I may have said some things about his mom I shouldn't of, but after telling her 4 different time "NO!" You would think one would take NO for an answer.... So of course him and I get into an argument about "why do you have to fight her on everything she tried to do?" And "she just wants to give you a baby shower, why is it such a big deal to you?".... Because it is!! This is MY pregnancy with OUR baby!! She had her babies! And it's not her decision!!.... Anyway, once things calmed down with us and we talked out our issues with eachother on the subject, I told him, "Ok, now she's causing issues in our home, in our relationship. It's not the fact that she wants to plan a party, it's the fact that she went behind my back and blatantly lied to you about what I had told her when she discussed this with me... She is so overstepping, and either I'm going to talk to her about it, which I cant promise it's gonna stay peaceful between us, or you can... But either way, she needs to be told that this is OUR child and HER GRANDCHILD, and she needs to stay in her lane." He agreed and took on the task to talk with her... Such a good man! I know it's probably very difficult to be caught up between his wife and mother, but I dont think it would of gone as smoothly if I had been the one to talk to her!! 😂.... So now she just makes snide comments whenever she can. Like "I'm planning on getting him a play crib for when hes over at our house.... If that's ok, you know I don't want to start any problems." 🙄🙄

My husband and I moved to ND from MT like 3 weeks after we found out I was pregnant.... My whole family lives in MT and his mom and dad live in ND.... Ever since we moved back to ND, my MIL keeps talking about my baby shower. I told her very early on that if my sister and neices arent able to make it, then I'm not having one... I have like one person I know here and I find it pointless to have a shower to celebrate my baby if the people I want to celebrate with cant be here with me...she did not take this as an option... So her thought was to gather HER friends and go to a bar so her and her friends and have drinks and have fun while I just sit there, I guess?... That was a big "hell no" from me. So after her mentioning that sanareo a few more times, my husband finally told her to let it go... Its not gonna happen. So now she plans on having me, my husband, her and her husband going out to dinner and inviting "just a few of her gal friends"... One of which I CANNOT stand to be around!! 😵😵 so I told her "listen, if you want to go out with your friends and have a "Grandma Shower", go ahead. But I AM NOT going to have a baby shower... If you want to get the baby a gift(s), we dont need a shower for you to do that." Now she's all pissed at me cuz im "depriving her of throwing her first Grand child a baby shower." 🙄🙄 get over yourself, lady. If my sister was able to make it, I was going to plan my own anyway... Just another way to make herself the victim and me the bad guy, I guess 🙄🙄😂 the closer the baby is to being here, the more me and her butt heads. Cant wait to see what it's gonna be like once hes here....