need pointers



Hi I’m Kira, I’m 17. I’m a virgin atm, but I don’t have any belief about when your should and shouldn’t lose your virginity. but I’ve found it really hard to open up and actually do the deed. I was sexually assaulted around a year ago & I never really resolved that within myself cause I got told I was lying and that it was my fault. anyway, I just want some advice on how to get over the anxiety of having sex for the first time. tia x