Growing up my dad was never there for me as a father should be for his daughter. He was always worried about his new wife and his daughter he had with her.. I went through a lot not having my dad in my life, it sucked. Thankfully I had a strong mother that raised me to be a good woman and mother that I feel that I am today.. I'm getting married in November and I've forgiven my dad for being absent in my life.. I'm getting married through the church and your dad is the one that walks you down the isle , and my mom and family dont think my dad should be given the honor to do that... I feel bad, how would do I even tell my dad that? I feel a little stressed even thinking of it. I don't want to hurt his feelings, but in my ear I have my family telling me that he didnt feel bad leaving me as a child and such. I'm just confused on what even to do.. what do you think?