Am I selfish to my boyfriend?

- My bf and I recently had a fight over a stupid thing while texting. At the point we could feel the conversation started getting heated, he told me to forget about it coz it was not worth it. But, i was so irrirated and wanted to find out who was right and who was wrong. I kept arguing and he couldnt stand me any longer. He told me to SHUT UP. At this point, i was like im so done with him. No one has a right to tell others to shut up. I told him that either he apologizes or never show up in front of me again. One hour later, he got off work early to come to my house and wanted to talk. He was at work when the fight started.

- He called me selffish because i tried to find out who was right and wrong over something that is not worth it. (at this point, he probably felt that he was wrong at the first place)

- I called him rude bc of telling me to SHUT UP! I just wanted him to apologize for this.

- Ultimately, he did apologize for being rude and said it was up to me when i wanna talk to him again.

- Have you felt like during your conversation w/ someone and something is brought up, and you tried to reason until the other person just says to forget about it?? uuuurg