So I'm currently 32 weeks & haven't carried to term with any of my children yet... but I'm really hopeful this time around dispite that & the cramping & unreal pursue down there, so I have my next appointment at 34+5 to re-due our birthing plan myself & husband have discussed this for hours but still cant decided on best course of action, so I've come to you ladys for advice...

I cant be medically induced due to health risk to both myself & baby.. but they can brake my waters...

I have bad OCD & like to have everything planned out & I know that's not possible with babys 🤣 but I do like to try..

So we have decided that either to have a c-section at 38+1 or have them brake my waters at 38+1 this means we have someone to look after other children as well so husband can be there to support me & see his child born.. we can have either but issue we are having is we cant decided on which one to do.. do you think 38+1 is to early to ask for that date? & what would yous do? I really dont want to push it any longer as if I go into labour I'll be on my own doing it & that scares me more 😪 have any of you ladys had your waters broke to bring on labour? Did it work? How long did it take?

Or should I just book my c-section & get it over with.. I've never had a C-section so dont know what to expect 🤔

Baby is above the 95th centile in size & I'm already 2.5 cm dilated..

Any & all positive advice needed & welcome even if it's just for support 💙💋❤

Thank you for reading this far 👍