Please help

I’ve been diagnosed with hsv-1 but never had any symptoms I have this painful bump on the side of my tongue in the back close to my throat and I feel like my lymph node is swollen. I’m not sure if this is an outbreak or if it’s a swollen papillae something like that I googled it lol either way I’m freaking out cause my boyfriend and I had sex and he gave me oral so can I get hsv 2 this way? He doesn’t have herpes at all but I’m not sure because I do if he kisses me then gives me oral if it’ll spread to my vagina. I’m scared I’m not sure what to do think please help 😔