anal? Bringing it up

Question

So basically my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half and we’ve been sexually active and we’re slightly kinky... like hand around my throat, slapping my ass, call him daddy, sometimes pulling my hair etc. so decently into kinks... but I’ve been like recently thinking a lot about anal. Not like full on anal more like him eating my ass 😂🙈tmi because whenever he eats me out he goes really really low but never does cause he once told me he’d never do butt stuff... and so idk how to bring it up that I kinda wanna try it. Like if he says no I’ll be a little disappointed but I’ll respect it and move on but idk how to bring it up because he’s like “hell nah, ion like butt stuff” even tho he’s never done it. 
Sorry this was long.

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I would talk to him about it again. See what he says. When my SO and I started dating I told him I didn't want to do anal because I tried before and did not at all enjoy it. He said he did it with his ex and he was fine not doing jt again. We both just forgot about it for a while until it came up one time. I told him I'd do it with him and he was glad I changed my mind. We both were thinking about it but didn't want to bring it up to each other. Since we both thought the other didn't want / didn't like it. Sometimes people change their mind about things. You never know until you ask.

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My boyfriend and I said we would never do it. Now we both enjoy it.

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If he’s already telling you he’s not into it, you need to expect him to say no. It never hurts to ask though. Maybe start by saying I know you’re not into anything anal, but if you change your mind I would like to try _____...

anal? Bringing it up

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