MIL drama

Yall I'm sorry I just need to vent for a minute.

So my mother in law had surgery a couple weeks ago and cant put weight on her foot so someone has to take her breakfast. I usually do it after I take my kiddo to school but he was out today. Hubby tells me he will do it on his way to work but he didn't have time and I over slept. Now mil is mad at me for not coming even tho she still had something to eat.

I totally understand her being upset but she expects me to drop what I'm doing at any given time. She says jump she expects me to ask how high. And I'm soooo over it!! She needs to understand that I'm sick also right now and on super strong antibiotics plus I have a toddler and an infant who I was up with half the night.

For almost 4 years shes also expected me to drop what I'm doing and bring my oldest to see her whenever she wants me to and I WILL NOT chase people down. They know where we live! (Yes I know she cant come see him right now due to surgery) and she doesn't include my youngest most of the time.