I’m going to be up front and say that I am not the best wife and I haven’t been for about 2 months now. I let my anxiety, jealously and temper get the best of me and lashed out at my husband by saying mean things and never truly getting over things/moving on. We had a massive fight this week which had me in tears for 2 days straight and has definitely caused a rift in our relationship. He said he isn’t in love with me anymore, that he wants a separation and for us to work on ourselves. Later we agreed to work on things together and move on from what has happened. He is still being cold, gets upset over slightest slings and doesn’t express his feelings when he is upset with me so I am basically left to read his mind. I’m having a hard time moving forward and accepting how things are because he hasn’t changed out he is acting towards me but I have constantly apologized and done everything he asked of me. I sent him a message today after he left for work apologizing for how I have been treating him and how I have come to the realization of how terrible I have been to him and that I will work on it. This was all he said. My anxiety is telling me to read into every.little.word but I know I shouldn’t. To me his answer seems very vague, he didn’t apologize for what he has done to lead us to where we are and he didn’t say he forgave me, he just says to move forward. I love him and I would do anything for him but I need him to really get over this and be nice again. How do I do that? Make him miss me? Leave and make him see what he is missing?