So me and my husband have been working through some things. He’s suddenly decided the husband and father role might not be for him but due to his job, this is a super normal thing for him to go through. Your average person? Maybe, maybe not, idk but him yes so I’m being patient. We finally were physical again after 10months, a quickie, and I felt weird going down on him because I wasn’t sure if he was ready. He’s very into that emotional connection and feels that we’ve lost that. I asked him about it and told him I wanted to and asked him how he felt about that and he said a quickie was good. So my husband would prefer to not have me give him head. We’ve been together 7yrs, married 4, have a daughter together, we’re getting past an emotional affair he just had, so it’s not like we’ve been together a few months and this is something new I’ve just discovered. We’ve been through a lot, we did it a lot, he always enjoyed it, and this is new. Any ideas on why and how to fix it?