I’m in a rough spot

I left my ex because he was toxic , after I left he told me that he has to go to court on the 7th and is facing 8 months county jail... I wanted to be there for him but he made it too hard and made me realize the reason I left. I was outside at t grandmas with my family and he rode pass. I texted why is he stalking me he said he didn’t he’s going To get something. So I told him to be safe because he has no L’s and can get in even more trouble if he’s caught. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ , soooooo he said that he’s drunk and don’t care no more about life & would rather be in prison..... I feel so bad , I want to help him out and be there for him. But he made it hard for me when I came back to be there for him.😌