Small rant...

Does anyone else feel like their messy house doesn't bother their spouse.

Today I feel like I did all the house work. I emptied and loaded the dishwasher then cleaned the sink. I started the laundry and had to ask my husband several times to switch it. I swept the kitchen floor. Picked up in the living room and tossed bottles in the recycling.

I know it's the weekend and it's not fun to do chores but literally every bottle for our daughter we had was dirty... and we had mountains of laundry.

I don't want to be the stereotypical nagging wife but the house looking the way it does makes me so anxious and he doesn't seem to care. He was working from home this morning (he does tech work from home frequently on his computer) so he couldnt do chores while working but he was waiting around for people to call him back and then he was done around 1pm.

Then of course I had said yesterday that we needed to lower our daughters crib and he waited until bedtime to do it... and it of course took half an hour and he snapped at me for it.

I have anxiety about the house and my job so moving around and getting the house cleaned makes me feel better. But then I get pissy cuz then im the only one doing stuff.

I love the man but damn... help me without having to hound you