I’m so hurt from this I feel so sad upset about this and cry about this reason a lot because ever since the pregnancy my husband and me had sex all the way up to 9 months but barely he said that once the baby was born it would ok and that he was going to do everything to me before we had sex every day before the pregnancy sometimes 3 times a day and almost all day long he had a high sex drive we both did I’ve always had a high sex drive now hes sex drive is low he says it’s because he is scared to get my pregnant again right now but I told him if it’s that that I will take my birth control 💊 but he says no don’t take them I know what I’m doing I told him maybe he doesn’t love me the way he thought he did he stays shut and says oh the things you say we barely have sex now it’s only like once a week sometimes two weeks without sex and if we do he only does it for a few minutes cums fast and says he doesn’t want to do it anymore that the next day the next day comes and nothing he lies and says the next day or another day and I get just so so mad 😡 when he says that because I know he is lying and when he is sleeping he’s horny because he jumps the bed in his sleep so I’m like thinking in my head if he is horny why doesn’t he want to touch me like he doesn’t even want to eat me out anymore he only ate me out like 2 times in a 2 year relationship before I screamed now I can’t scream like before he says he is also tired from work I really love him and he is the love of my life he says that he loves me and that we are ok but I told him that I have my needs as a women and if he doesn’t satisfy I will need to find someone who does I’ve been patient since the pregnancy the baby is already 4 months old and still the same thing I told him that I’ve had enough patience and that I’m just tired of this Desprete and that I can no longer be like this in this relationship we’ve just had the best moments we’ve been to resorts on vacation together shopping together at the salon together it’s just so hard when you love someone so much thinking of separating just because of that reason for some people sex is not as important but for me it is it feels like it is because since I was little I was horny I started to masturbate at 11 years old and yes I’ve tried sex toys..... but it doesn’t feel the same for me because I want the man I love to make love to me not use a plastic fake toy I just don’t feel and don’t get the same pleasure out of it I’ve even been thinking about us seeing a sex therapist but I haven’t told him that yet