Relationship

Hello

I’ve been with my partner for 3 years and I was wondering if anyone else partner was like mine

He says his money is his and mine is mine and baring in mind he has to earns more then me I get benefits!, he makes me pay for most of the things or we have to go halves on it!

It’s nearly our babies birthday and I’ve brought all their presents and all I’m asking him to do is pay for their cake and cupcakes which are getting made for him its £65 but I’ve spent over £100 on their birthday presents! I’ve got £193 to my name to last the month and he is making me pay for our virgin and the rest of the birthday stuff for the babies and making me pay for the soft play for the kids which there is 5 kids all together!!

My family think he has his morals all wrong

What do you think I should do?