Boring sex...

My husband and I had an amazing sex life when we first started dating! Our chemistry was off the charts and we would have 20 minute to hour long sex 1-2 times a day, everyday!

Of course, life changes and we got busy, started a business together and don’t have as much time as we used to

My husband has also gained about 50 pounds since we’ve been together, started drinking more, and has a much lower sex drive.

I’m lucky to get sex once or twice a week. And now it’s so routine and boring:

He pushes on my clit like a door bell for a couple minutes till I force myself to orgasm, cowgirl for 2 minutes, missionary for 2 minutes, doggy for 2 minutes or until he finishes.

I’ve tried getting sexy lingerie, no change.

Tried suggesting getting a sex game or dice, and he said it would probably just end up not working or be stupid.

Last night I brought up that I was horny and he said “well let’s go to bed then!” I ran to the bathroom and brushed my teeth and freshened up and when I got to the bedroom he was asleep!

I don’t know how to bring any of this up to him without insulting him.

We’re still very much in love and our chemistry is still great, we flirt all the time, but our sex life is sad and boring at best...