Update To: Bf of three years says hes happier talking to his ex.

He eventually messaged me back after not coming home for a few days and said he just doesnt know why he cant be friends with his ex and he felt he had to hide it because even when I found nothing I always looked for bad thinks to validate my worrying and it was ruining our relationship.

He has alot on his mind that's not just me, his dad died recently. I told him if we need a break I think we should take one but if you find yourself liking being single and you want to have sex with someone and not come to me for it then I wont be here.

We were having a normal convo then he said he was drunk and sent me this...