Advice please

Let me make a long story short. I have suspected my husband of having something going on for about a year. Lots of signs. I documented it and keep it logged in a email, dates, times, what he told me he was doing. Several times he wouldnt come home until 2am or later. At this time I was working two jobs, he would tell me that I was always a bitch and hateful and I wasnt pleasant to be around ( was working 70 hours a week) and this is due to him being off work due to medical reasons we were trying to catch back up on bills. I finally was able to quit in April and that's when I found text with

him and a girl he was working with, I have held onto this since April when I found the text this weren't just hi, how are you, these were flirting, dirty, sexy text. I have been trying to bring it up and finally was able to today and somehow this got flipped around and he is pissed at me. Probably why it took me this long to be able to bring it up. Because now he cant believe I would accuse him of cheating on me. And he denied it all and said he told her to stop and hasn't talked to her. And she text him and she ignores him. I forced myself to reread the text tonight because he made me feel crazy for feeling this way. I am going attach a couple of the text just to give a idea. Its pictures of his watch. I have over 70 pictures of text like this. I am heart broken and have been. And of course he was so upset he had to go stay with a friend and he will see me when he sees me. I just dont even know what to do anymore. Also he no longer was working with this girl at this point he was working at a completely different job. I havent shown him I have proof. He doesnt know I have pictures. Any advice. I have a lot of anxiety and it interferes with me being able to confront him and actually stay on point. He gets me all upset and then I lose what I am trying to say. Thanks for reading.