Divorce seems to be the first and final answer

Why is it that when someone post any little problem they have with their husband, the first answer people have is “Oh, honey, you need to leave him”. What happened to working on things and finding a solution? Why can’t we recognize as women that we also have toxic and bad traits that our husbands probably find unappealing? We’re so quick to point the finger at the man for being the root of all evil when we ourselves are so far from perfect? Divorce and blaming should not be the only solution in a marriage. Now I see why the rate for divorce has skyrocketed- it’s easier than finding the faults in ourselves and fixing them. No man will ever be perfect and we will never be perfect either. Marriage is about growth, learning and love. How can we grow and learn if we abandon ship?