Parenting two kids

My husband seems to think because I’m nursing our son that he is entirely responsible for our toddler daughter. Some might think this is great but I feel I barely have opportunities to interact with our daughter. I used to love getting my daughter up in the morning and putting her to bed at night.

I know I should be grateful for an involved husband but I feel we’re creating a bad dynamic that will affect how we parent long-term. I didn’t have two kids so he gets one and I get one. I want to parent two damn kids.

Any advice from parents of 2+ kids?