Hey ladies!!

I need some advice. 3 months ago i had a massive fight with my mom. We are really different, i feel like she never cared for me...

well she actually told me that her favourite daughter is my sister right to my face, i got so sad and left. She got mad at me because of that! Because she can say whatever she wants and my feelings don’t matter. She told me she loves my sister more, and that she prefers my sister’s husband rather than my future husband (we are getting married next year).

She lives in portugal and me and my sister live in Spain. This summer she came to visit my sister and she didn’t even looked at my face, never once said hello or whatsoever.

My best friend went to meet my mom, and my mom said awful things...

Basically my sister is always talking to our mom, saying bullshit about my fiancé.

Dont get me wrong, if it was true i would be “happy” that my sister is worried or something but...my fiance is fucking great!! He makes me so so happy i dont understand why she is doing this...my sister is saying that i should be more like her, always wanting more, more things and more money...that im stupid because im happy with what ive got.

I dont understand why is my big sister talking such horrible things about me.

The worst thing that she said is that apparently i became vegetarian because i dont have money to buy meat. I cant believe this! Is ridiculous!! If you spend 5 minutes with me you would realize how much i love animals and why i changed my diet 1 year and 6 month ago!!

I feel stupid...and i dont know if I should talk to her about this or not...my best friend asked me to speak to my mom and try to find more crap about my sister...what would you do?