My husband wants me to do something I’m not comfortable with

So recently I’ve talked to my husband about this, we’ve decided to wait to have a second child (as ours right now is 1 years old). I had been on TriCylcen 28 for 12+ years of my life and recently came off of it about two months ago. I told him that when I was on BC, I was more depressed had less of a sexual desire and gained a lot of weight I didn’t want and I wasn’t comfortable putting my body through all of that and he still doesn’t think it’s a good enough reason but won’t do anything else to help reduce the chance of pregnancy (aka buy condoms)

What’s some pros and cons to TriCyclen you’ve experienced and how could I convince my husband to not be such a dick?