So I’m 7 months pregnant, and I agreed to a baby shower that my mother in law is planning for me. She’s basically taking care of everything, and I’m not complaining it’s nice to have someone else stress about that stuff. The only thing is, there’s a couple things I want to decide, like what cake I want and how I want it to be done and by who, she keeps saying how expensive it is, and that she can find a cheaper one but I know for sure the design won’t be the same. Plus my husband is the one paying for everything, I just feel like what I want doesn’t matter. Do y’all think I’m exaggerating? Should my opinion even matter if I’m not really doing the planning? I feel like the baby shower isn’t even for me because they’re not even considering what I want for food to be given, I’m put my thoughts into something else but they want to disregard them, which I’ve said I can pay someone else to do the food I personally want but she keeps saying to save the money and she’ll do what she wants for food. For the rest of the decor I’ve given my ideas, which they’ve taken into consideration at least for the theme. I don’t know maybe it’s my hormones but my husband says to not let anyone discourage me from choosing something if I want it, not even his mom because of course it’s MY baby shower.