I normally handle all night time issues with the baby. I breastfeed and dad usually isn't the go to for comfort anyway. I'm normally up 2-4 times a night with him. Well, the last few nights have been more difficult than normal and the baby has actually been crying in the middle of the night. Two nights ago I had no energy left to try to keep him asleep and the crying woke up my husband (who sleeps peacefully in the guest room). He was up with him from about 2:30-3 and then took him at 4 when baby decided he was up for the day. We were talking today and he told me he had to get coffee that day because he was seriously dragging after being up with him. My reaction was as you would expect. "Oh, were you tired? After that ONE night?" His response? It's not so bad for you because you're used to it. I thought it was polite that I didn't punch him.