I feel like I’m the only one

Ji

Hello ladies , in the U.K. you don’t get cervix checks until you are in labour , so reading all these posts I feel like I’m the only one who has no clue if I’m dilated at all or if my cervix is soft nothing! No clue what’s so ever! I’m due next Thursday

Edit* thank you ladies for all your comments , I don’t feel so alone now!