I’m just asking this because I’m pregnant and my hormones are everywhere and I’m not sure if I should trust my emotions or not sometimes lmfao. My boyfriend has this new girl at work he complained about constantly when he first met her, said she’s annoying and always wants to be next to him and talk to him. Well, a couple weeks later, that switched and apparently they’re friends now. He came home late from work a couple nights ago with a beer. I asked where he got it from as we are both underage. He told me he was with her and she bought him a beer from the corner store. But the thing is he had gotten off work an hour and a half prior to coming home and his job and the corner store are less than a five minutes drive. It was just him and her. He told me she jokingly asked me to come outside to say hi and he thought she was serious and she said nah don’t do that. I’ve only seen this girl, never talked to her.

This alone might sound stupid, but a couple weeks ago I caught him texting his ex girlfriend. Before I caught him, he told me “(Ex) texted me but I just immediately blocked her” well, I come to find out later that’s not true and they were texting each other. So he lied to me. I confronted him about this and he insisted he doesn’t like that “slut” so I don’t need to worry.

He broke his phone and has been using mine to log into Snapchat and he’s been super sus about it. I tell him can I please use my phone but he can stay logged in and I’ll give it back if he gets a notification. I don’t have a history of going through his phone. He always says no way and gets pissy about it. I once looked over his shoulder and saw he sent a picture to a girl I’ve never heard of before and was like ooooh is that your girl clearly not serious, and he got super defensive. I asked why he was so defensive and what he sent her. He said he couldn’t remember and “just sends random shit sometimes” it was sent 10 minutes prior to me asking.

He uses my phone in the middle of the night without permission (he’s supposed to ask since he would throw a fit if I used his without asking) to watch porn. He looks up descriptions of the girl he’s been recently hanging out with “Ebony lightskin with freckles curly hair” or whatever. Exact description of her. That alone also wouldn’t bother me if he didn’t change the way we had sex. He now keeps his eyes closed when he used to stare intensely at me. He doesn’t care if I’m in pain during it, and doesn’t talk dirty to me anymore. He no longer takes me on dates and will only hang out with his friends.

Keep in mind, he has cheated on a girlfriend before. But I’ve known this guy for YEARS. I’m 19 and pregnant with his kid. We live together. I don’t know if hormonal and emotional and reaching or if I have a valid concern.