I’m 23 and I’ve been with my boyfriend nearly a year.

Before I met him I had stopped dating and whatever for a year to sort my life out, I had found happiness and I believed it was time to try dating again.

My boyfriend and I had instant click and we really got on and had so much in common and the months FLEW by.

During July/August we stopped having sex mainly because I wasn’t feeling up for it and I just didn’t want to anymore I had no real burning desire to have sex.

That’s kinda the point I knew things weren’t great.

When I initially met my boyfriend I didn’t have many friends but now I’ve made new friends with the girls I work with and I don’t see him as often.

I still have love for him and he’s done nothing wrong but I’m not the same fragile person he met last year.

I’ve really grown into my self and I feel I can no longer offer him what he wants, I fear if I break up with him he wouldn’t of seen it coming and will hurt him BADLY.

I’ve never really spoken to him about how I feel because it was kinda like a light switch moment to when I mentally clocked out.

I just don’t know what to do next now...