Hi y’al im just curious about this thing, do u go out every weekend with ur husbands and friends? And where do u leave ur little ones when u do? Where I live there r no babysitters and I’m just feeling very tied down that I can’t just go to dinner whenever I feel like it cuz I have to arrange for my kids a sleepover etc etc.. I used to live in the gulf and as a privilege there u can get a stay in nanny but now that I moved to the states it’s so hard.

I’m just wondering if it’s normal not to go out on weekends and how to u keep ur social life?

Hubby has already made plans to go out almost every night and do some kind of activity/sports mainly which leaves me home and bored.. any suggestions? And yes I tired to speak to him about it but he makes me feel guilty that it’s the only thing he gets to do for him after work( I’m a sahm) but it’s almost every day