Why is it not ok to hold your baby??

Put her down.

Let her cry it out.

She will be fine.

You're spoiling her.

You're never going to be able to live with her.

Things I've heard in the past three weeks. But here is the thing. I don't want to put her down. She's my baby. It is my job to protect her physically and emotionally! She doesn't know what is wrong she just knows that her only way to communicate it to me is to cry. I may be spoiling her but I don't believe a baby can be spoiled. I believe she can be loved and taken care of so that when she gets older she can be an independent/secure child. So I don't want to put her down and I'm not going to! I'm going to sit here and hold my precious baby girl that I waited years for!