My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have a 2 year old. We moved in together last year around this time. We’re set to move into an another apartment next Thursday. Also, I’m 9 weeks pregnant.

Tonight, my son had his phone watching youtube. He somehow got out of YouTube and got to the “recent/most used” apps on iPhone. I seen tinder and decided to look and see why it was most used. There were messages to multiple females like this.

We were at his moms house with his brother so I just step outside and start bawling. I’m not really confused because he constantly likes other females photos, always on his PS4, constantly on social media & YouTube. It’s a cycle and I totally seen this coming. But now right now ......

I know he seen what I seen because the whole ride home he said nothing to me. As soon as we get home, I start packing mine and my sons stuff and I leave. I’m currently at my parents house. I’m thinking I’m going to stay here until I get on my feet. He says he was only doing it for clout and followers. No matter the reason behind it. I can’t get myself to forgive him or understand.

I told him I won’t be moving out with his on Tuesday, that I’d be moving all of my things out into my parents house. I don’t really know how to feel ........ he’s so lazy and only plays the game, get on social media, and watch YouTube. He works 12 hr shifts 4 days a week but when he’s not working that’s what he’s doing. I get no help around the house, with our son, or anything else unless I ask. We don’t go out on dates, we didn’t even celebrate our anniversary.

I just need some advice on what you’d do in this situation.