So yeah... The size

Nina

My SO has a rather large... Thing.

Larger than usual. Don't care to get into numbers but it's massive. So large that I enjoy it but I can never fully experience it because of the pain. We use tons of lube and it still doesn't help. I'm never able to ride. He has to take control all the time and be careful not to hurt me. Especially since I'm 4'10 and skinny lol.

Any tips from ladies whove experienced larger... Things?