Bf and I have been living together for over two years. Yes we had our differences but I love living with him. A month ago he told me I needed to get my own place, that we would stay together, and that he just doesn't want to live with me. That he needs his space back. Okay. Heartbroken. How can a relationship make it after taking a major step back like that? I felt as if he got the privilege of taking our relationship for a "test drive".. Put 100k miles on it..and got to take it back.

I pulled my big girl panties up and got myself a house. It has been over one month now, and he has not even let me stay the night in my own house. He begs me over everyday. He is going above and beyond with his kindness. If i go to my house to have some alone time..he shows up. When he goes to leave.. He says " well cmon lets go cook dinner/order a pizza/you coming home?" .

I want him and I want our life back together. But our bills just tripled by me getting a house. For no reason whatsoever. We still are together every second. I still sleep at his house everynight. Someone give me some actual advice here. No, talking to him wont work. I've tried before I moved. He remained consistent with us getting separate places. I dont want to break up either .