Hi ladies. I’ve been very conflicted with the boys in my life particularly this one boy.

Him and I met at a summer camp when we were both in high school. I was a junior and he was a senior. Fast forward three years, we’re both at the same college in the same small co-Ed sorority. Since we met three years ago, we have a superrrr close relationship. We made out last October when he just broke up with his girlfriend but then they got together and things were awkward. When they broke up in April, we finally got to reconnect like the best friends we are.

In September, we were talking over text and I said “we’re never gonna date right?Like just be bffs forever?” And he (slightly drunk) said “yep sounds good to me”. So I figured it wouldn’t be an issue how close we were. We’re both very touchy and flirty people.

Then after one party in September, we made out for the first time this year. A lotta fun but I was also a lil confused. He was super flirty with other girls Saturday so Sunday we talked. I said I was more so looking for a relationship and he said he wasn’t so we agreed to stop making out.

Since then, we’ve made out 3 more times. I don’t think he wants a relationship but sometimes I question it. The small group we’re in has a loose “no dating” rule so it doesn’t create drama or anything in the future. When we’re alone, we are really close, but if others are nearby we kinda have to pull back a little. We especially don’t wanna be caught by the other members of our group. Idk I guess I’m just wondering what your thoughts are on this situation.