How do i stop saying “if” ?

Question

“I will tell my kids about this baby IF we make it to 8 weeks” 
“I will buy a baby onesie IF I make it to 13 weeks” 
“We will find out the gender IF we make it to 18 weeks” 
“We will buy a new car IF we make it to 30 weeks” 
How can I change my mentality?! How I can I make myself believe this baby can and will survive?! I want to enjoy this pregnancy and have hope. I am so scared to tell anyone because I feel like I may jinx it again and lose this one late too. 😭😭

Answer

Replace if with when. Make it a habit.

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I Do this too ‘ IF this works out...’ ‘ my second trimester will start in December IF I make it that far’ makes me sad I can’t just be confident and say when. I feel like my miscarriage robbed me of my joy in this. Only 5 +1... longggg road ahead

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35 weeks with my rainbow. It got a lot easier after passing the date I lost my first pregnancy but still hard. I forget if I read the statement on here or somewhere else, but every time I started to think negative I had to tell myself, “right now in this very moment, all is well and you are growing a healthy baby.” I would remind myself over and over and it helped me to be appreciative of the moment in which everything was going well, rather than think of the future and what could go wrong.

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Honestly I struggled with that a lot this entire pregnancy (I'm 37w4d). I couldn't really begin to change my mentality until around 24 weeks.  I just felt so nervous and it just seemed like something could go wrong at any moment. At 24 weeks I finally started buying nursery furniture and other items and let myself relax a bit, but I'm still nervous.

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To manifest things you need a positive attitude with positive wording! Like the others said, you’ll need to practice it to make it a habit :) that being said, it is difficult saying this when the other outcome didn’t happen the way we wanted BUT keep looking forward to that positive! Also, you have to believe it! Live and Breath that this time round the baby is staying and is as healthy as can be!

How do i stop saying “if” ?

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