I never want to be intimate

I feel like since I was about 20 weeks pregnant I've wanted nothing to do with sex and being touched by my husband. We have had a lot of issues in our marriage with him talking to other women and being just all around a dick but we've been in counseling and are really trying to fix our relationship for our baby. Well, I literally never want sex. I could go months and be fine. He on the other hand, wants it multiple times a day. I feel like there is no passion anymore. I want to feel desired in other ways and we just aren't cutting it for each other intimately. Any advice on how to rekindle a romance or help increase sex drive?

Edit: I'm now 9m pp so I've been feeling like this for about a year. And it could be both our rocky relationship or pregnancy. I hardly even want him to kiss me anymore