Just to clarify real quick, my husband and I usually gossip about e v e r y thing. Now he’s in basic in the Army... should I fill him in over letters or let it be? I figured that would be like a normal thing for us to make him feel like everything is the same, but also I don’t want to make him feel overwhelmed or anything. I just need some advice bc I don’t wanna do the wrong thing.

Also, it’s not like anything crazy. Like random family drama (I have a big family and we usually judge and gossip together.... as harsh as that sounds—I swear it’s in a loving way) and stuff like that.