How did you start being sexual with your partner?

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My partner and I want to be more sexual but I'm a little nervous about it, not that I don't want to believe me I do. But it's been a while since my last relationship so I don't remember how relationships transition to something more sexual. Does it just happen? do you have to talk first?

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My boyfriend and I just eased into everything, I guess you could say it came naturally. We started off holding hands and hugging, and he would lay his hand on my thigh. We started kissing after that and that led to booty grabbing. After that he started rubbing my vagina through clothes and I would give him handjobs, which led to oral. Just give it time. We never talked about it verbally ... we would send texts like “that was fun 😉” or something like that lol.

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I think everyone kind of talks a little bit about it first not even intentionally. But you do want to set rules, you are adults and should treat people with respect and understanding as well as they should with you. Some people are into things others may not be. I’d recommend a small talk.  Not exactly right before it but at least days or weeks before it just so you both know more or less what the other likes. You are not going in just guessing and wondering what the other likes. But as for How to start, it’s usually starts with a kiss that turns hot and than hands come in and the rest just kind of happens if both parties pay attention to the details or flat out say ‘i want you’ but be prepared to be rejected and not over reacting because you have to be understanding of the other person too and their wants and needs if any.

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For me personally, we weren’t sexual until after marriage and I was 21. We were both virgins and hadn’t done anything sexual until our wedding night.

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For me it started with a back rub after a hard upper body day at the gym. 😉

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Definitely talk about it to make sure you know what you both are looking for

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What ever ur both comfortable with. I say u should talk to him about it cause like u said u wanna get more sexual so tell him that. Also don’t force anything try to go w the flow.

How did you start being sexual with your partner?

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