This has been a huge struggle for my mom with both of my pregnancies. She has wanted to be invited to appointments and I just don't see the point. We don't have a great relationship, she has boundary issues, and I am a private person. I don't want to go in talking about my vagina and having diarrhea with anyone there 🤷‍♀️ I feel like the non-ultrasound appointments are quick and boring and the ultrasound appointments are special for me, dad, and big brother.