Husband won’t let me go out 😅

I haven’t been out alone in almost 2 years. I have a 11 month old and I’m 27 weeks pregnant and husband thinks I’m avoiding my responsibilities and putting myself at risk all because I want to go out with some girlfriends for a few hours. And by go out I mean go get lunch and go to target not some bar. He thinks I’m taking time away from family but I have literally never asked to go out alone until now. I wanted to make it a once a month thing. Is he right, is it selfish? I’m trying to see where he’s coming from but I can’t 😅

Update: Guys thank you so much, I thought maybe he was just scared because I’m pregnant and have an 11 year old but I live in a super safe city and target is 20 minutes away, so I’ve decided I’m going out on Friday no matter what 🤷🏼‍♀️ I told him how toxic and controlling he sounds and I think he got the point he’s still not happy about me going out but mama needs a break!