I’m posting this under a poll, as those tend to get more traffic. For so long I’ve been afraid to let go of my ex as if nothing better would come along. I’d love to hear your guys stories, whether it be another partner and how amazing they are, a job that a breakup lead you to, or just self exploration.

I finally unfriended my ex from couple years ago and I actually feel good! Had a dream about him last night and his girl was there, she got mad he was talking to me, she slapped him and said she’ll divorce him for this. He was crying cause he wanted his girl but he also wanted me in his life. In the dream I said no it’s ok, exes shouldn’t be friends anyways. I woke up, not sad but actually proud that in my dream I moved on and was a boss bitch! And funny enough, after letting go of this memory I had of him, I feel content! Another one of my exes (was a rebound from the guy I dreamt about), our breakup lead me to opening my own online business, and it’s been the best thing to happen to me.

I’ve been thinking of the qualities I want in a guy, how I want to feel, how I want him to understand my love language, and the adventures I want to go on with him. Girls, I can finally see better things are to come