Well, labor and birth visiting “plan” has been sent to the families and I’m pretty sure I’ve pissed people off lol

My mom is upset as she wanted to be IN the room but my husband and I want it to be just us. And my mother in law only sent me a thumbs up so I’m pretty sure she’s upset about something as well.

Just trying to remember, this is our time. After two losses we are finally getting our rainbow and we’ve gone through so much to get here and what makes us more comfortable and happy / stress free as a family comes first.

This was my message to the in-laws. We were going to discuss face to face but after contemplating we think it’s best in a message as face to face would open dialog and possibly a back and forth to a subject that here’s no negotiating in.

Background: in laws live 3 and a half hours away and my parents are 2 hours away.