Anyone else’s urethra gets in the way?

Does anyone else have a “non-sexual” urethra? I know that it’s not part of the clitoris, and just functions as the peehole, but it’s always gotten in the way of pleasure with my partner. I hate that he has to work around it, like, it’s so not fair, like, I’ve talked to a friend before and she said she loves it rubbed. But mine is just pure discomfort.... 😑

I did read before that it was normal for some females, but that was so long ago, and not finding anything online....

If you’re like that friend I mentioned good for you lol, I don’t wanna hear it 🤣